What Alfred Adler Can Teach Us About the Inferiority Complex?
Feeling “Not Good Enough”?
Have you ever sat in a meeting with a “perfect” idea, but kept your mouth shut because you were sure it sounded stupid.
Or you shunned away from a challenge because you knew you wouldn’t succeed.
Alfred Adler, the psychologist behind the idea of the inferiority complex, said “to be a human being means to feel oneself inferior”
To put it in other words: feeling less than is normal. It only becomes a problem when it controls your choices and hinders your growth.
Adler called this an ‘inferiority complex.” When that feeling dominates your mind and turns into a mental block that can hold you back in life.But the feeling itself can also be fuel.
Two things can happen:
–You use it as motivation to learn, practice, and improve.
– Or you avoid responsibility, compare yourself to others, and slowly shrink your world.
The difference isn’t the feeling; it’s what you do with it.
Next time that voice of self-doubt whispers in your ear, ask it one question:
“Are you here to stop me, or are you here to push me?“
Dr. Chavi Gupta
Psychiatrist, VHC
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